Freaky Friday *35
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Barbie Boys Beware!
Got a kid who likes to play with dolls? Dr. Phil’s advice for parents like Robby, whose five-year-old son likes playing with girl toys and wearing girl clothes. DON’T LET HIM. Like a fucktwat.
Robby’s 5-year-old son loves to play with Barbies and prefers wearing girl’s clothes. She asks Dr. Phil how to deal with this behavior, which she doesn’t think is normal. "There are developmental stages in kids and it is not unusual, particularly for young boys, to experiment and get stuck on certain stimulus items," says Dr. Phil. Particularly because the little boy has two older sisters, he says, it’s not unusual. This is not a precursor to your son being gay," explains Dr. Phil. He’ll know that in time, but this is not an indication of his sexual orientation.
Dr. Phil tells Robby that she has a job to do: "Direct your son in an unconfusing way. Don’t buy him Barbie dolls or girl’s clothes. You don’t want to do things that seem to support the confusion at this stage of the game … Take the girl things away, and buy him boy toys.” Most importantly, he tells Robby, "Support him in what he’s doing, but not in the girl things."
That’s right, parents. Don’t worry that your gender confused son is going to turn into a big gay. But do what you can to try and prevent it by forcing him to abandon the toys and dress he is naturally drawn to, and force him to do something more butch or he will end up like the lads below!
Remember when CNN had clinical psychologist Jeff Gardere on its program to address Sarah’s five-year-old son who chose a Daphne Scooby Doo costume for Halloween, and Gardere called it "the worst nightmare of both the heterosexual and the gay couples to have to fathom that their child may be gay"? (And then apologized for it?) That’s the same fear mongering Dr. Phil is feeding in to.
Kids experimenting with gender roles is completely normal. And in particular, it is around age four and five when children begin understanding — at least on a surface level — what makes them a boy or a girl. Which means this developmental period is even more important for parents to cherish and foster, not restrict and forcibly shape. Dr. Phil’s advice isn’t constructive. It’s damaging. It tells parents they should actively work to keep their sons from being too girly (whatever that means), and vice versa. As if 1) that’s something parents have control over; and 2) there’s a reason to do it.´[via]
Guys & Dolls, a complicated Relationship at Times
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Cute Caturday *23
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Vanity
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Milk Monday *21
Photo by & with Mad Englishman
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Queer-On-Queer Hate Bingo
Anything you want to add?
Found at reddit
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Teasing Tuesday *46
Photo by HomoEmo
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Inequality is Unfair
…thinks a seven-year-old who has donated $140 to the Los Angeles Gay and Lesbian Center and the Human Rights Campaign Foundation (HRC) because he doesn’t think it’s right for gay people not to be treated equally. Malcolm was given $140 by his parents to donate to the charity of his choice. He chose to split the money between the gay centre and the HRC. The cheque was accompanied by a hand written note that read: “I am sending you this money because I don’t think it’s fair that Gay people are not treated equally.”
A note from the boy’s mother said: “To teach the importance of improving the world around him, Malcolm was given $140 to give away to the charity of his choice. After hearing a story on the radio about the mistreatment of gays and lesbians, Malcolm became both upset and curious about the issue… to help, he chose to split his money between the L.A. Gay & Lesbian Center and the Human Rights Campaign Foundation.” [via PinkNews]
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Wet Wednesday *58
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Blocks
Santiago, Chile, in 1986. Luchito is 13 years old and feels deeply attracted to Manuel, a 16-year-old neighbour. Luchito masturbates whilst watching the window of an adjacent building where Manuel is enjoying a sexual encounter with a neighbourhood girl. The window becomes an erotic stage that arouses Luchito’s curiosity – but this has catastrophic consequences for Manuel.
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Diver
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Drift
Photo by Helen
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Teasing Tuesday *47
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Double Dance
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Videos & Downloads
First of all: Yesterday’s video should work for everyone now; there was a problem with the video codec keeping some people from streaming it, sorry about that.
And since this seems to cause some confusion every now and then: If you download videos here you will usually get a file with the 7z extension. This is not a video but an archive format so if you ever tried to play those files this is the reason why it didn’t work ;)
To extract 7z files you can use apps like 7-Zip or WinRAR (Windows), File Roller (Linux) or The Unarchiver (MacOS). There are many more applications supporting 7z for every operating system. The videos are mostly encoded as MP4 or FLV files and work in every common video player like MPC or VLC (which is available for Windows, Linux, MacOS and others).
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Pulsing Veins
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Anonymous hates Attention Whores
Anonymous, the online activist movement, has taken down the website of the Westboro Baptist Church, home of the ‘God Hates Fags’ campaign group that pickets the funerals of US soldiers whose death the group blames on an acceptance of homosexuality by the USA.
Anonymous has taken down the main website of the church together with their other websites, including the charmingly named PriestsRapeBoys.com as well as GodHatesAmerica.com, GodHatesTheWorld.com, JewsKilledJesus.com and AmericaIsDoomed.com. The one page of the website that does resolve contains a letter from the Anonymous group that says the church’s website has been “seized by Anonymous under section #14 of the rules of the Internet.”
The church had begun a hate campaign against Anonymous and claimed that it was under threat, something that Anonymous said was a lie and a publicity stunt. In their posting announcing the hack, Anonymous said: “Your continued biting of the Anonymous hand, however, has earned you a swift and emotionless bitchslap, in the form of this very message. Despite having had the capability to hack your sites previously, we chose not to and instead responded maturely to your threats, but you have not respected this.
“For this unremitting display of overzealousness, we award you no points. Take this defacement as a simple warning: go away. The world (including Anonymous) disagrees with your hateful messages, but you have the right to voice them. This does not mean you can jump onto Anonymous for attention.” The message ends with the statement: “God hates fags: assumption. Anonymous hates leeches: fact.”
Article by PinkNews
Video: A source from Anonymous confronts Shirley Phelps-Roper from the Westboro Baptist Church, calling the supposed letter sent to Westboro by Anonymous a hoax. While he is talking on the show, the Westboro Baptist Church website and other affiliated sites were hacked and replaced with Anonymous notices.
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Freaky Friday *36
Photo by Atmosphere210
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Lady Gaga’s Stupid Plan
Before all those Gaga fanboys jump at me I’d like to make clear that the following post is from Queerty.com, so don’t you blame me ;p
Is this how Lady Gaga will make good for helping generate cash for Target? She’s releasing a "limited edition" of "Express Yourself" "Born This Way," and that a portion of the proceeds will go to "gay rights groups," whatever those are. But how can you get your hands on this special track? Oh, right, by buying it at Target — which gets the benefit of increased foot traffic in its stores so more of your cash go toward the company’s unregulated support of anti-gay politicians. I believe there is a term to describe this: money laundering. Don’t play along.
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Stalking Saturday *22
Photo by Boybeauty
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